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Buenas tardes !back to my blogsphere and finally I’m gonna post an advising tips for you guys out there.

“PACARAN SEHAT” . Tema postingan gue hari ini, walaupun gue sedang masuk angin cukup hebat hari ini, yang mengakibatkan gue kentut-kentut secara dashyat, itu gak akan menghalangi niat gue dalam proses pembuatan posting ini.

Mungkin kalian-kalian para muda-mudi galau jamaah suka denger yang namanya pacaran sehat itu gak ngeseks, pokonya engga raba-rabaan lah !. kalo menurut gue pacaran sehat itu pacaran yang membawa pengaruh baik buat satu sama lain. Kita kan pacaran untuk jadi lebih baik, bukan jadi lebih buruk. Nah sayangnya, banyak muda-mudi sekarang yang tenggelam dengan kenikmatan yang ngebuat pacaran itu enggak sehat. Makanya, gue mau share beberapa tips yang mungkin bisa ngebantu kalian buat berpacaran sehat !

Pertama, BUAT KOMITMEN DARI AWAL BERPACARAN. Maksudnya biar sekalian belajar tanggung jawab, buat komitmen tentang apa yang boleh kalian lakuin dan yang ga boleh lakuin. COBA BUAT TANGGUNG JAWAB SAMA KOMITMEN YANG KALIN UDAH BUAT.

Kedua, TEMUKAN KELEBIHAN DAN KEKURANGAN MASING-MASING. Tujuannya biar kalian bisa mengubah diri menjadi lebih baik lagi. Pertahankan yang baik dan ubah yang buruk. Ayo berubah bareng-bareng sama pacar.

Ketiga, PACARAN SEHAT ENGGAK SELALU SOAL SEKS DAN NAFSU. Nafsu itu penting, kalo kalian gak ada nafsu untuk memiliki satu sama lain gak usah pacaran aja sekalian. Kalo emang kalian mau ngeseks juga gapapa gak ada yang larang. Kalian udah gede, tau yang mana yang bener. Saat kalian lakukan perbuatan yang jelas-jelas kalian tau resikonya apa, kalian harus bertanggung jawab atas itu.

Jadi kesimpulan dari tips-tips di atas adalah, BERPACARAN YANG SEHAT, DAN HARUS BERTANGGUNG JAWAB ANTARA SATU SAMA LAIN.

“love is not a silly game. It takes years to build and second to break it” -DK

dream day dream wedding

hola !

selamat datang ke postingan kedua gue hari ini. langsung aja ke pointnya, kenapa "dream day dream wedding ?" itu karena gue ngebet nikah. kalo dulu misalnya di tanya sama guru tk "apa cita-cita kamu ?" gue paling bego, ga ngejawab karena ga punya cita-cita. tapi entah kenapa belakangan ini, gue akhirnya punya cita cita. oke mana tepuk tangannya ? *PLOK PLOK PLOK*

dan gara-gara gue tadi abis nonton film apa gitu gue lupa judulnya. dimana cowoknya hawt banget dan ceweknya gak hawt tapi oke lah toketnya gede. makin ngebuat gue ngebet nikah.

gue iri sama mereka yang bisa tinggal berdua sama pacarnya gitu. eh bukannya gue mau ngapa-ngapain ya sama cowok gue hahaha. tapi kan asik ga sih kalo misalnya bisa tinggal berdua sama pacar ??gilee, makin erat deh tali puser. akhirnya gue bbm ke cowo gue :

D : enak ye di sana tinggal berdua mah sebodo amat haha
S : emang kalo di sini kenapa ?
D : di sini ya gitu, ga enak aja. kan asik tinggal berdua hehe. tapi ga asik kalo lagi berantem
S : kalo uda berdua ya berantem mesti berdua lah.
D : hah ??ga ngerti hahaha. jelasin coba
S : iya kalo berantem mesti tetep berdua. masa kalo berantem terus pisah siihh

so sweet ya ?hehe. ini nih yang gue cari, bersedia bareng sama gue dalam keadaan apapun. yah walaupun gue juga masi pacaran sama dia cuma seenggaknya bibit-bibit setianya udah ada lah. lumayan.

akhirnya gue jadi berkhayal sendiri tentang perkawinan gue haha. gue ngebayangin aja betapa serunya gue bisa tidur pelok-pelokan sampe napas lo abis sama suami gue. bangun tidur liat ada suami lo di sebelah. abis itu pagi-pagi buatin sarapan. seru banget hehe. kalo siang-siang ga ada kerjaan peluk-pelukan di sofa sambil nonton dvd. ADUH KAPAN GUE NIKAH ?!

the end. gantung.

watermark effect

buenas tardes ! great afternoon bloggers. i get a day off today, since final test was begin, so i don't need to go to university. today is another day of boredom. and i get nothing to do, and TAAARRAAAA !

i made this photo got edit !

FROM THIS

TO THIS

thanks Pastel Girl for the basic tutorial, and if you want another shoot like this just click on :
http://sabilanata.blogspot.com/2011/11/howtomakewatercoloreffects.html

she is great. i don't know her either, just got it when i was blog walking yesterday. HAVE A NICE DAY !

last moment with december

buenos tardes !. just landed at my bed, and finally after doing some photo webcam, i decided to write a new post.

don't you believe ??it is December already, and 2011 will be gone. i'm really really bloody waiting for 2012. i'm gonna start my new major, since i decided to leave my major and thanks fully my parents allowed it.

well, the time has gone so fast bloggers. so many memories in this year, and i even can't trust it !. i have been a semester !and then i will become a jobless next year. My friends are starting they final test on ninth this month. and today, i got my last hedonistic time with Ezra.

IT WAS CHURRERIA AT GRAND INDONESIA! i actually have been here with my other friends, but i didn't post it in this blog. since she isn't too special. so, i dedicated this post for Ezra. a special partner in crime.

too bad Ezra wouldn't grab some photo, yeah she said "i'm ugly today". ERGH. so i took a photo yesterday when we went to TIS.

with regard, you look like a monkey, ez !

ice lemon tea and ice black currant tea

my raspberry mix churros

quatrro stagione means four season

Churreria outlet at Grand Indonesia, Upper Ground floor

i really hope the best for all my friends on this ninth day of December.

"the best moment of life, is never happen at the beginning" -DK

one or two is always great.

Buenos tardes, bloggers !
well another nice morning, i don't know how to say this but it is about 9:53 A.M and i am guessing is it noon already or maybe still morning count. but it doesn't matter. why ??so i'm posting again today -which is very rare- because my friend, i mean my partner in crime was asking me to make her drops another tears.

since it is the last of of November, i wanted to say thanks for people who were accompanying me pass through this month. it is really another crucial month for me.

Thanks God, because you never ever tired up never give up to always giving me the best of your grace. That i still can live well, eat well, breath well. while there a lots can't.

Thanks Dad and mom, even you aren't meet me everyday. i know finally, you gave me another chance to try. to fights for things i want.

Thanks S, never absent just for a day. even when you sick. you made my day honey :)

Thanks for my friends, who always leave a chat on BBM for me.

the last, and maybe the longest. THANK YOU TRY CYNTHIA EZRA.
for the belated birthday present. although it already passed a month. a heels. that i wanted. a lot of thanks try.
for the cash and bill. for the ride. the pick up. the blazer. the make up. the mukenah or whatever. the smile. the laugh. every single day. i felt really damn cool when there is a moment that i was waiting you in my car, and then you came with your car and parked next to mine. it just sounds cool !ha !.

it was really fun together. walapun sekarang gue belom bayar kasbon ke try, gue bingung dimana lagi temen yang bisa gue kasbonsampe 100 ribu lebih. gue bingung, siapa lagi yang rela jemput gue di rumah.
gue punya pesen buat try :

maybe its a farewell message. i'm not really good at showing my feelings. but i hope you understand.
siapa sih yang nyangka kita bakal begini deket ??dan siapa yang sangka kalau gue bener-bener bakal pindah. gak kerasa 1 semester udah mau abis. sadar ga sih ??dari awal kita emang selalu berdua ??dari bener-bener cuma tukeran pin, dan mulai sering ngechat pagi-pagi, "lo dimana ??gue udah sampe nih, di taman." eh keterusan sampe sekarang. malah sekarang ngechatnya, "try, masuk gak besok ?". gila yah, dari yang gue pikir kita ga bakal jadi apa-apa, eh ternyata sekarang jadi temen bolos. siapa yang tau ??. dari cuma duduk sebelahan, eh sekarang udah bisa jemput ke rumah gue. dari cuma sering makan di kantin, sekarang udah bisa kas bon sama try. dari cuma kemana-kemana berdua, eh sampe bisa bikin PIC TO DO LIST. ga bakal nih gue temuin lagi yang kayak gini. temen bolos, temen ngutang, temen ngerjain tugas, temen ansos. temen satu botol nestle berdua. temen yang mau nyium rambut gue sampe di liatin sama senior. temen yang berbagi pasminah sama gue. temen yang minjemin gue blazer. temen yang nemenin gue nyasar berdua sampe mampang. temen yang bersedia ngomong inggris kenceng-kenceng di gi. temen yang pake sendal jepit ke union. temen yang beliin gue heels segitu mahal pake duit dia sendiri. temen yang suka minta kertas. suka nonjok, nyubit dan nyentil gue. temen berbagi mobil. temen berbagi make up. temen males. temen tidur di mobil. temen yang nemenin ke wc, even pas gw boker. honestly gue bingung, dimana lagi bisa dapet temen kayak try. DIMANA LAGI ADA TEMEN YANG MAU GALAUIN GUE. ada yang bisa jawab ??.

and  since i'm moving next year. i really hope you can have another close friend. NOT ANOTHER PIC. so i can leave you well, we should go to Bandung, having a little farewell. we are pic forever right ?? :)
sampe gue nikah dan elo nikah, just remember our madness at today time. and our tears at saddest time today.

"thank you and good bye" -DK.

pumpedupkicks !

how's everyone news ??. i'm sure you guys are great today. finally back to write a new post.
well, first all. HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY TO ME !. and finally i got my belated gift, from a girl that will be a memories but she will always stay. i want to say thanks for try cynthia ezra, who give me this pumped up kicks !. GOTTA LOVE YOU MORE ♥

"we are forever partner in crime" -DK to Try Cynthia Ezra.

To Be Grateful

6 November 2011. 10:30 P.M. Eid Al-Adha night.

buenas noches everyone !and happy Sunday, well i was skipping my church time. since i've been bad, dan gue berpikir kalau hal tersebut akan menjadikan gw ke gereja adalah satu simbol dan bukan lagi kerinduan. i was decided to skip it.

okay, first of all. gw bukan seorang gadis, yang begitu kuat imannya so that i can beat all the bad lust. and one thing, LUST ISN'T SAME AS SEX. don't tell me that please, because there are bunch kind of lust !

tapi yang membuat gw berniat untuk ngepost hari ini adalah, people nowadays are often forget TO BE GRATEFUL. same as the title, may i repeat. TO BE GRATEFUL.

mungkin ini yang jadi pertanyaannya. HOW CAN I BE SO GRATEFUL ?

gue dulu juga susah. i mean, YES I'M GRATEFUL. only on my lips, not with my heart. sampai pada waktu seketika gue mandi. dengan adegan mengguyur rambut dengan shower, gw mulai berpikir. "wow, keren yah sampe sekarang gue masih hidup ?" and then lanjut, "dan bisa mandi di kamar mandi yang layak, dengan shower pula" kemudian merembet jadi, "gila, padahal banyak orang di luar sana mandi di kali yang coklat, kotor dan ga layak."

dan kemudian besoknya, gw bangun tidur terus langsung mikir, "makasih banget gue bisa bangun pagi ini gak kekurangan satu apapun bahkan gue masih tetep bernafas, melihat dan tidur di ranjang, pake ac lengkap sama selimut, guling dan bantal."

dari situ entah gue belajar untuk bersyukur, and it was the thing that made me bringing down my complain.

jadi teman-teman mari kita belajar bersyukur dan sekali lagi, gue bukan sesosok manusia dengan iman yang kuat.

"in every minutes and every second of your life. Your were created and gifted to be grateful for everything." -DK

end of post. 10:50 P.M. Started sleepy.